Picture Taking Etiquette at Weddings

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If you don’t have a camera on you at all times, you are definitely behind the times. Almost everyone has a cell phone and almost all cell phones have cameras in them, which makes it oh so easy to snap a picture anywhere you go – even at weddings. So should wedding guests feel free to snap away and upload photos to Facebook? Definitely not.

Unless the bride and groom have given the okay in advance, wedding guests should respect the happy couple and not share photos of them on Facebook during the wedding, like during the ceremony and even the reception. Many guests forget they were chosen to be on the invitation list and asked to join the celebration – their “friends of friends” were not.

That’s said, it’s okay to take pictures of yourself and the group you are hanging with at the wedding. Maybe you got all decked out and want to upload some “selfies.” Find a great backdrop and take all the pictures you want. The key is to not steal the bride and groom’s thunder by taking tons of pictures of them and showing them to hundreds of strangers on Facebook while the wedding is going on. Some of them may even be friends that didn’t get on the invitation list. You wouldn’t want to stir any trouble.

If you are the bride and want to gently ask guests to follow this photography etiquette, feel free to post on your own Facebook status, perhaps a day before, that wedding photos will be shared upon return from your honeymoon. Another idea is to buy disposable wedding cameras and have them at each table. You can add a message on place holders thanking guests for not “leaking” photos of your big day on Facebook, and instead invite them to take pictures of friends and family. Disposable cameras are also a great way to capture more candid photos of loved ones that your designated photographer may not get around to, like parents, grandparents, and distant relatives you only get to see at very special occasions.

A wedding day is a special day and lots of thought goes into finding the perfect photographer who will take lovely photos of every moment, for the bride and groom to share with family, friends, and Facebook.

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Wedding Day Is Just Around the Corner

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The countdown is on! How many days are left before your big wedding day? Two months? One month? This is about the time a bride can really turn into bridezilla. With so much left to do, the stress can reach new heights.

But wait! This is also a good time to start calling on friends and family to help pitch in with final items left on the to-do list. Even if you are using a wedding coordinator, it is still good to enlist the help of those you trust.

While the maid of honor is usually the bride’s right hand helper, having close friends or relatives who are not in the wedding party is best since these guests will not be tied up with duties in the ceremony or reception.

Here are some areas to divvy up:
The church and reception location – As the wedding day draws near, have someone check to make sure the doors will be open at the time needed for set-up. Who will be the contact person to call on the day of the wedding? Have the names and numbers programmed into cell phones for easy access.

Wedding Favors, Flowers, cake, and music – Have a trusted friend follow up to make sure these things are still on schedule, along with any special details you may have requested for each.

Incoming RSVPs – This may be a task you want to keep for yourself, but you can ask anyone living under the same roof to help keep track of this growing list and headcount.

After wedding details – What happens after the wedding? Who is responsible for transporting gifts to your home while you dash off to your honeymoon? Who is taking down decorations and making sure all rented items are returned? Give keys, phone numbers, and addresses to someone you trust.

Since all the major things have probably been checked off the to-do list, now’s a good time to add those special details you haven’t gotten around to doing, like ordering small Thank You gifts – not only for the wedding party, but anyone who is pitching in to help in any way. No need to order expensive monogrammed gifts. For a few dollars each, a small manicure set, purse holder, or special bookmark is practical and makes for a thoughtful gift. Order extra wedding favors for anyone who pitches in to help at the last minute. Tuck these gifts away in the bag you will take to the wedding. Your gesture will be appreciated and remembered.

Now that you’ve enlisted the help of others, relax and enjoy the days leading up to happily every after.

Nuptial Knick Knacks Launches Wedding Favor Video Inspirations

Wedding Favor Videos

She’s getting married.  Whether it was a surprise proposal surrounded by friends and family or a quiet evening asking for her hand in marriage, the new bride-to-be is swept away and begins her childhood fantasy of meeting prince charming and living happily ever after.

Nuptial Knick Knacks, online wedding favors and bridal shower favors retailer, launches a series of beautiful videos capturing the whimsical moments experienced by new princess brides on their way to living the perfect fairytale wedding.  The videos were shot and edited by the amazingly creative Javier Gil of Javier Gil Photography & Video.  Be sure to check out all of his work!

These artistry in motion videos are created to inspire, provoke, and encourage planning the wedding of every girl’s dreams.  The sights and sounds of these videos are sure to get any girl started in this new and exciting chapter of her life.

To watch the stories unfold, visit www.nkkweddingfavors.com/videos.  Be one of the first of many Nuptial Knick Knacks fans to subscribe, ‘like,’ and share our videos from our YouTube channel – www.youtube.com/NuptialKnickKnacks.  For even more inspiration, check out the many new wedding favors and bridal shower favors added to Nuptial Knick Knacks.

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Nuptial Knick Knacks adds to their 2013 Spring Wedding Favors collection

22020GN_WindowBox_LWho doesn’t love all things Spring?  Flowers blooming, birds singing, and blushing brides making their way down the aisle.  What better way to add spring to your wedding than finding just the right spring wedding favors to treat your guests.  Nuptial Knick Knacks offers a fresh selection to choose from.

Weddings and flowers go hand in hand making spring a favorite season for weddings.  Whether you love daisies, roses, lilies or cherry blossoms, Nuptial Knick Knacks has the wedding favors you’ll love to share with your wedding guests.  Choose from blowing bubbles topped with daisies, butterflies, and colorful bouquets to blooming wine bottle stoppers and love bird tea candles.

Spring favors can also be shared at churches and schools for children and teacher appreciation events.  Nuptial Knick Knacks favorites include lady bug money banks, bugs and flower paperclip bookmarks and place holders, and floral purse hangers and compact mirrors.

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Personalize Your Wedding

Weddings are beautiful events that should be personalized and have special meaning to each couple.  From the save-the-date and invitations to the ceremony and reception, it’s important to make this day your own. After a while, all weddings start to blend together, so make it memorable for your guests as well!  Here are a few tips on how to stand out from the others:

-Everybody loves seeing photos on how you and your fiancé grew up!  There are various ways on how to incorporate these photos, you put together a video montage, use them as your table numbers, create a photo album for all to see and add their memories with you or display them on a table.

-For a destination wedding, give wedding favors that will remind your guests of the wonderful time they had at your wedding, write the event details on a postcard from that place, or use pieces of a map in your invitations.  

-Share a toast with your guests.  Thank them for coming and tell them your story. Make it personal and really connect with your friends and family.

-Worried that the flower girl won’t make it down the aisle on her own?  Have a junior bridesmaid pull her in a classic red Radio Flyer wagon.

-For a picture-perfect memory, place your guest book on a table beside a rented photo booth. Guests can paste their snapshot in your book along with their good wishes for your future.

-Opt for a cake topper that says something about you as a couple: your favorite flowers, a monogram, customized bobble heads, or Mickey and Minnie figurines if you’re off to Disney World for your honeymoon.

-Don’t number the reception tables—name them after your favorite date places, pets, travel destinations, movies, songs, etc.

-Create a signature drink or drinks and name them after yourselves or your favorite places or things. Find drinks that match your wedding’s theme and colors.

-Use personalized postage stamps for your invitations.

The most important thing to remember when planning your wedding is to make it memorable to you.  It’s your first day as husband and wife!

Selecting Your Wedding Date

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Ready to start planning? Before you put down a deposit, check this list of dates you might want to steer clear of when booking your wedding. Holiday weekend weddings have pros and cons. You’ve got an extra day for the festivities (and recovery!); plus, it’s easier to host a Sunday wedding, which is often less expensive than a Saturday one would be. However, costs of travel and hotels may be higher. Also, having a holiday wedding might adversely affect your wedding guest list. Some families have standing holiday weekend plans or traditions that they’d prefer not to disrupt.

Martin Luther King Jr. Day (always a Monday)
January 16, 2012
January 21, 2013

Presidents’ Day (always a Monday)
February 20, 2012
February 18, 2013

Memorial Day (always a Monday)
May 28, 2012
May 27, 2013

Independence Day
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Thursday, July 4, 2013

Labor Day (always a Monday)
September 3, 2012
September 2, 2013

Columbus Day (always a Monday)
October 8, 2012
October 14, 2013

Thanksgiving (always a Thursday)
November 22, 2012
November 28, 2013

New Year’s Eve
Monday, December 31, 2012
Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Religious and Cultural Holidays
Be mindful of religious and cultural holidays (your own and those of your guests) when planning your wedding. There may even be restrictions at your house of worship as to whether you’re allowed to marry at these times.

Palm Sunday
April 1, 2012
March 24, 2013

Easter Sunday
April 8, 2012
March 31, 2013

Passover (begins at sunset the night before)
Saturday, April 7, 2012
Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Tisha B’Av (begins at sunset the night before)
Saturday, July 29, 2012
Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Rosh Hashanah (begins at sunset the night before)
Monday, September 17, 2012 until nightfall on Tuesday, September 18, 2012
Thursday, September 4, 2013 until nightfall on Friday, September 6, 2013

Yom Kippur (begins at sunset the night before)
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
Saturday, September 14, 2013

Hanukkah (begins at sunset)
Saturday, December 10, 2012 until nightfall on Sunday, December 16, 2012
Wednesday, November 27, 2013 until nightfall on Thursday, December 5, 2013

Christmas
Tuesday, December 25, 2012
Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Kwanzaa
Wednesday, December 26, 2012 until Tuesday, January 1, 2013
Thursday, December 26, 2012 until Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Costly Holidays
If you’re looking to marry around Valentine’s Day, be wary of your floral bill, especially if you’ve got your heart set on red roses — they’re likely to be more costly than at any other time of the year. Likewise, reception sites often charge a higher fee for a New Year’s Eve wedding.

Notable Holidays

April Fool’s Day
If you and your fiance are jokesters at heart, this could be the perfect wedding day for you. If not, choose another day.
Sunday, April 1, 2012
Monday, April 1, 2013

Mother’s Day (always a Sunday)
Make sure your mom is okay with sharing this weekend with your wedding — but it could be the perfect opportunity to honor her. If you do choose it, make a toast to all the mothers in the room at your postwedding brunch.
May 13, 2012
May 12, 2013

Father’s Day (always a Sunday)
Ditto for Dad.
June 17, 2012
June 16, 2013

Halloween
Wednesday, October 31, 2012
Thursday, October 31, 2013

Quirky Dates
10/11/12 falls on a Thursday
12/12/12 falls on a Wednesday
11/12/13 falls on a Tuesday

Other Dates to Avoid
College reunions and/or homecomings, big conventions in your city, and any annual charity events that involve your family or close friends.

Nuptial Knick Knacks has wedding favors for all seasons! Check out our huge selection by stopping by our website!

Spring Wedding Myths

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Spring is the time of year most often associated with weddings, so you might feel there are even more expectations about what kind you should have. We’ve broken down some of the most common assumptions about spring weddings to help you make your own rules.

Myth #1: You Must Use Pastel Colors
Though some spring brides embrace the colors traditionally associated with the season, others cringe at Easter egg-inspired hues. If you find yourself in the latter category, go with a color scheme that fits your style best. Pulling off an unexpected palette gives your wedding an element of surprise that will wow your guests. If you want to go with a seasonally appropriate but still unconventional choice, take the pastels up a few notches and go with brighter hues like hot orange, acid green, and magenta.

Myth #2: You Have To Have Flowers Everywhere
On the one hand, spring is a bride’s bonanza for flowers — a huge variety of blooms are in season and easy to get. But if flowers aren’t your thing, there are lots of options for creating interesting and unusual decor. One way is to incorporate other kinds of natural elements into your centerpieces: Think moss, wheatgrass, river rocks, or herbs. While these will still evoke a spring-like feel of freshness and rebirth, there’s not a flower in sight. Want something more dramatic? Towering, blooming branches like cherry blossoms, quince, or dogwood look modern and incorporate some flowers without being in-your-face. Best of all, they look great anywhere — whether on the altar or on your reception tables.

Myth #3: You Have To Have a Daytime Wedding
Dreaming of an evening affair? Some associate spring with a brunch reception. Brunches are beautiful, but they’re not the best option if you want to have an all-out dance party. Though the days are getting longer, you can still wait until sunset (or even later) for your ceremony. If you want a daytime wedding — particularly outdoors — go ahead and take advantage of the fair weather. Spring’s milder temperatures make a midday wedding much more comfortable than it would be in the heat of summer.

Myth #4: You Have To Stay Inside
While in many places early spring (in other words, March) can be unpredictable, don’t rule out an outdoor wedding for the entire season. The elements will be a factor in an outdoor celebration at any time of year, but rather than giving up on going al fresco, just plan ahead. When you’re looking at ceremony and reception sites, ask what other couples had done as a rain plan and whether any changes needed to be made. Get the details on those other spaces so if you’re planning to have 200 guests, you won’t choose a site where the indoor space can only hold 120. Another option: Reserve a just-in-case tent.

Myth #5: Your Attire Should Be Informal
The weather’s warmer so hemlines can be higher. Sure, your bridesmaids won’t have to worry about freezing in tea-length dresses, but it doesn’t mean you have to have them. If floor-length is more your style, that’s just fine. Same goes for your gown and the guys’ attire. Though a light-colored linen suit would be perfect for some springtime affairs, if a classic tux better suits the tone of your wedding, go for it. No matter what time of year you’re marrying in, the main thing that’s important is comfort — so if you love the look of satin dresses but are worried your maids will be melting, choose a similar style in a more forgiving fabric like a silk blend.

Don’t forget to check out our selection of spring wedding favors at Nuptial Knick Knacks!

Wedding Flowers

Flowers and weddings go hand in hand, but that doesn’t mean you have to be a slave to tradition. Here are 10 creative flower ideas that challenge conventional notions.

1. Instead of bouquets, have delicate wreaths created for your bridesmaids to wear in their hair. Think ancient goddesses or fairy princesses — greens or blossoms will do the trick. Give maids small purses to carry down the aisle, or advise them to clasp their hands as they process.

2. For a visually stunning send-off, furnish guests with pretty paper cones or teeny baskets filled with rose petals to throw instead of rice or confetti. Escape from your guests while being showered by a fragrant cloud.

3. Sometimes the simplest flowers can look spectacular in multiples. As centerpieces, dense bunches of Queen Anne’s Lace and variegated ivy look elegant and lush while imparting a rustic, au naturel feel. Cluster three glass tumblers full of flowers — you can even use pint-sized jars or milk bottles if the setting is rural.

4. These days, stylish grooms and groomsmen are walking on the wild side, studding their lapels with mini calla lilies, mini sunflowers, and just about anything else. Exotic boutonnieres are bold and sexy and will refresh any tired tuxedo getup. Choose something special for the groom and accent it with a ribbon that matches his personality — plaid for preppy; stripes for chic; or polka dot for the lighthearted.

5. For an exquisite postwedding keepsake that won’t fade or dry up, many brides are opting for silk flowers. Boutonnieres and corsages can be created, and faux floral accents bring a touch of romance to ring pillows, shoes, gift packaging, place cards, and favors. Roses, orchids, peonies, poppies, gardenias, violets, lilies of the valley, and pansies are all up for grabs, but choose your craftsperson carefully. Silk flowers can be a cost-saver or a luxurious splurge, depending on bouquet size and the quality of the vendor’s wares.

6. Show a little stem. Unstructured, ribbon-tied bouquets are all the rage, often in vivid, monochromatic tones. Wrap bouquets with colorful ribbons in sumptuous fabrics such as satin, velvet, or organza. Rummage at flea markets and antique stores for fine vintage fare, or check out a local wholesale dealer’s fabric supply.

7. For the reception, consider decorating freestanding tables with different arrangements — low bowls filled with ruby red roses and cherries to tall, cylindrical vases wrapped with filo leaves and filled with half a dozen calla lilies. The variety will add visual interest to your reception space.

8. Know what types of flowers your grandma toted down the aisle? Honor a family member through your wedding flowers. Incorporate their meaningful flowers into your bouquets and arrangements. Looking for ways to invoke the memory of a deceased loved one? Find out about the flowers the person loved. If you infuse your flowers with symbolism, they’ll seem even more beautiful to you on the big day.

9. Whether you choose loose or a fabric bouquet wrap, make sure your selected style is unique. Cover the bouquet handle with a dark, velvet fabric and braid another pale-hued one around it, corset-style. Talk to your florist about other presentation ideas.

10. Keep the memory of your wedding bouquet from fading by taking it to a flower preservationist. You’ll want to find a professional who specializes in preserving to make sure the job is done correctly — ask your florist if they can recommend anyone. If you would rather preserve the bouquet yourself, you can try hanging it upside down in a dark, airy spot, or disassemble it and air-dry the flowers individually, but keep in mind that many flowers won’t hold up without professional treatment.

Check out all the wedding favors we have at Nuptial Knick Knacks!

Out-of-Town Guest Gift Baskets

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Wedding planning can be very stressful, especially as the big day gets closer and closer. Throughout the pressure and anxiety, you must take the time to remember those who will be celebrating with you-specifically out-of-town guests to make them feel more welcome.

When they arrive at their hotel room, your guests may feel disconnected from you and the wedding. That is why a token of your appreciation should be waiting for them in their room. Many wedding planners suggest creating gift baskets full of items the guests can use during their trip. The basket should always be sealed with a personal note from you to the guests.

For the out-of-town guests unfamiliar with the area, you can offer a welcome basket with maps, event calendars and points of interest. You could also include food items and drinks in a basket so they will have something good to eat when they arrive. Finally, some pampering essentials-soaps, candles and oils-might offer a soothing touch for guests who are exhausted from a long trip. The main idea behind a gift basket for your out-of-town travelers is to tailor it to their tastes and personalize it especially from you.

Pick up some fun favors to add to your gift baskets at Nuptial Knick Knacks!

Rehearsal Dinner Ideas

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The days of stuffy sit-down rehearsal dinners the night before a wedding are over. Today couples are getting revved up for their wedding day in backyards, bowling alleys, and on beaches. Here are a few ideas on how to make your rehearsal dinner one your family and friends won’t soon forget.

Fondue Theme. From buffets to multicourse sit-down meals, fondue adds fun to any dinner. For your rehearsal dinner, start with toast points and various cheese pots: blue cheese or Gruyere are good starters. Move on to meats, potatoes, and veggies, which can each be dipped in sauces (like teriyaki, red wine, and ginger) and cooked right on the table. For dessert, dip fresh fruit, squares of firm cake or brownies, bananas, and marshmallows in pots of melted chocolate, caramel, marshmallow, honey, and yogurt. Give guests a take-home version of one of the dishes or even a monogrammed fondue fork.

Bowling Theme. A themed bowling rehearsal dinner party is big fun — and sends a clear “casual attire” message to your guests. Some alleys have private rooms where you can serve food — the menu is easy: pizza, nachos, pretzels, and other foods from the snack bar. Stage competitions between the two families, or do boys vs. girls, and give awards at the end of the night (don’t forget to honor “Most Gutter Balls”!).

Destination Theme. Going somewhere tropical for your honeymoon? Give guests a little sneak peek and transform your wedding rehearsal dinner into your destination. Hang hammocks from trees in your backyard, serve dinner buffet-style on long surfboards, blend pina coladas and daiquiris, and let Jimmy Buffet blast. For fun favor ideas, try personalized messages in glass bottles, flip-flops, or gift certificates for a spray tans.

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